meet the sickies

toastie and i are both under the weather. Me; gastroenteritis aka stomach flu, Him; dental.

Well long story short, his tooth grew abnormally long, went undetected and finally broke, lodging itself in the back of his mouth causing him to stop eating. Dr Lee managed to get some pieces out but his tooth is rotten so we'd prolly have to check in with the vet regularly from now on.

nasty broken tooth

the seaweed is always greener

if i could only live as a mermaid would, this is what I'd wake up to every morning.

2013

to go vegan
to do what's right

Mr Claus

me and you in the end

heart

hang in there i'm coming back for you

kites

besides the number of candles on  my birthday cake, i've noticed my perspective also changing over time. i suppose, you could say the most change happened in the past year.

one of the more startling differences -i came to this epiphany spending Halloween frisking along the aisles in Mustafa Centre- is that it used to be, "Oh my boyfriend is so amazing, he bought me a lovely Tiffany's charm bracelet for Christmas , but now it's more, "Oh my boyfriend is so amazing, he spent an hour understanding me and helping me get through my hang-ups."

i suppose you could say that change of perspective comes with age, but i believe in that equation, the factor of willingness or want comes into play.
You need to want to grow up.
I needed to want to grow up.



please don't mistake this for a 'holier than thou' type of announcement but more a self-reflection. when i read this a couple of months or years down the road i wanna remember just that.